Admit it, you have feelings too. It is okay to express your feelings. You are not "soft" if you have feelings. We aren't going to judge you for talking about how you feel.
You can't fully love us without loving the Lord and putting him first in the relationship. Put God first in your life because he will fully be able to satisfy you. Lead and encourage our relationship with the Lord together and individually. Pray with us, say prayers for us even if you don't tell us. God should be your main focus above all else.
Be the guy you would want your sister to date. Treat a girl you would want your future daughter to be treated like. Be the guy you would want your sister to bring home.
Don't stop trying to win us over. Keep trying for us as you once did when we first met.
Don't cheat. Be loyal, it's not that hard. If you don't want to be with someone anymore then break up with them. Everyone deserves respect and honesty.
Compliment your girl. We love a confidence boost.
Write her notes. Her heart will melt and it will make her day. I promise she will reread them at least 20 times.
We like pictures. Take pictures with us! Pictures become precious memories. Behind every picture is a story of a thousand words.
Don't give other girls attention. When you entertain other girls, you are saying they matter more than your relationship. You are letting her know that you choose her over your girlfriend. We know other girls intentions wether you see it or not. Be mindful and respectful of us. Your actions reflects how much you truly value the relationship.
Surprise visits. Especially if we are having a rough day, we want nothing more than to give you a hug. It can make your girls day.
Dances. We love to dance no matter if it's day or night time, rain or shine. Put on some music in the kitchen at 1 am and spin her around. Go for a drive and park the car, go open her door and ask her to dance.
Reassurance. Every girl needs to be reminded how much you care for them. It is not a lot of work to remind someone you are there and they are wanted.
Deep Conversations. We love to talk. We want to know everything about everyone and deep conversations bring warmth to our heart. Open up to us.
Silly Conservations. We want to have conversations where it is goofy and we just laugh about it too.
We have been hurt before. We all have a past. If you are with someone who is fragile then more than likely she has not had the greatest experience with guys in her past. Be patient with her, she is trying. She just needs time to know you aren't going to hurt her like she once was.
Love isn't controlling. Let her go out for dinner with her friends or a shopping day with the girls. It is important that you make time for friends within your relationship.
Be protective over us. Be protective in a sense of holding our hand when we cross the road. Be protective over us in a sense of telling us to walk on the inside of the road. Be protective in a matter of telling us to be safe and drive the speed limit. Be protective over us in every aspect that you can think of.
Be open with us. Tell us about your day and whats on your mind. We want to know these things even if they are small and you think they may not matter.
Don't get upset with our insecurities. We all have things we do not like about ourself and are insecure about. We can't help how we feel but we can control how we handle it. Instead of getting upset with us, try to be more understanding.
We want as much energy and effort as we give. A relationship isn't always going to be 50/50. Some days your partner is going to have a bad day and it is going to need to be 80/20 and they are going to need you to be there. Most of the time you should give the same if not more effort than you receive. Let them know they are loved.
Let us pay for your meal when we want to. I think it is okay for us to buy you a meal or something every now and then. You don't always have to take care of us. Let us take care of you as well. Let us treat you.
We love it when you talk about your mom and treat her well. How you treat her is how you will more than likely treat us.
When you remember the little things it means the world to us.
Don't give up when things get hard. Talk about things instead of arguing with them. Work things out. No argument is worth losing someone you love.
Cherish the time you spend together. Put down your phone and spend quality time with your partner. Make her one of your priorities.
Take time to figure out what makes her happy. Do things that will bring her joy. She said will do things you want to do but also do things she enjoys as well.
These are some examples that I have experienced and some of my closet friends have experienced. Thank you for reading. God bless,
xoxo- Sarah Grace
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